“If you bring a trans woman home and then don’t want to have sex with her just because she used to be male, yer scum in my book. You were attracted to her enough to bring her home, and its not like its gonna feel any different.” Except you literally have sex with genitals, so if you are attracted to her but don’t want to have anal or touch her dick, that’s valid and not ~transphobic~. Intercourse is about genitals, not gender.